Turn-ons can vary greatly from person to person. What one person finds arousing may not be the same for someone else. Turn-ons tend to be a private thing for most people because they may feel ashamed or embarrassed to talk about them, especially if they think they are “weird” turn-ons. Sharing turn-ons, even with a partner, can evoke a sense of embarrassment due to societal expectations or personal insecurities.
One user shared, “There is a spot on the dead-center back of my head. Even someone lightly touching it or pulling my hair sets me off. Doesn’t matter who.”
Waiting To Be Touched
A second user said, “I had a male friend that was very religious and did not touch women. We were close friends for years and never touched, hugged, or shook hands. One day he passed me a pen, and his finger grazed my finger ever so slightly. Holy moly… It was one of the most intense sensual moments I’ve ever experienced. The sense of touch was magnified to a level I had never experienced. So yes. That’s my kink now. But any time I asked a partner just to avoid touching for like a week, even a few days to build up the se****ual tension, they thought I was crazy….”
A third user added, “When a guy lays his head on my lap and is totally vulnerable. It’s the vulnerability part for me. That’s the turn-on.”
A poster commented, “Olive green, I don’t know why, but if a woman wears an olive green shirt, I find it strangely arousing.”
A top-liked comment said, “People who dress professionally for work, but they have a tattoo or several, and the tattoos can slightly be seen.
Gloriously Good Time In Bed
This person added, “I love joking, laughing, and talking about random stuff, all while having a gloriously good time in bed. Good belly laughs and absolute silliness in bed is a big one for me.”
One poster said, “When someone gets really close and whispers in my ear…like please, no, I can’t be h***rny right now.”
Someone stated, “A competent and capable girl who is completely fumbling something. Like a girl that is really smart and knows how to cook but is completely messing up trying to make dinner. I’ll go over and help, but I will constantly think of helping in other ways. It’s more of an emotional turn-on than a physical one.”
Position Of Some Power
This poster commented, “Female mid-level managers at grocery stores. Like the assistant manager or dept head. I’m dead serious, and I have no idea why.”
A user posted, “I’ve always thought some women looked REALLY good with vampire fangs. Or even just longer canine teeth. No idea why but I know it’s weird.”
A top-liked comment said, “Wardrobe malfunctions. But they need to look accidental, not “se****y.” Like the Janet Jackson Super Bowl mishap. My God.”
This person added, “Lip biting. A natural lip bite is so se****y, but it’s very obvious when someone does it intentionally to “be sexy,” and it looks dumb. But those natural and possibly even subconscious lip bites…..”
This commenter stated, “Someone who hugs well, like a big ol hug that embraces the other person and presses them against you while you slightly lay your head on theirs and just cherish the moment for a few seconds. Drives me mad.”
Reading In Public
This user shared, “People reading books in public. Especially when it’s a guy who holds the book open with one hand, I melt.”
Talking To Animals
Finally, a user said, “The other day, my boyfriend was talking to his dog, and he said, “You’re such a good girl. I love you so much.” I was sitting near them. It turned me on so much. I didn’t say anything, though. So embarrassing!”
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