Toxic traits can be alluring yet destructive, drawing unsuspecting individuals into their web of negativity. Some people find themselves inexplicably attracted to those who possess traits like manipulative charm, controlling tendencies, or an air of superiority. The allure lies in the initial excitement and confidence displayed by these individuals, creating a false sense of security and power.
Jealous & Attached
One commenter said, “Super jealous and overly attached types. I think a “healthy” amount of jealously in a relationship is hot, but that could also be my “toxic trait.”
A second commenter added, “Mean chicks. Not like abusive or screwed up, but one’s with a bit of an edge to them. Bad girl’s.”
A third commenter posted, “Narcissists – I grew up with one, and they still get me all the time. Maybe it stems from “mommy/daddy issues.”
This user shared, “Co-dependent people. When I’m in a relationship, I only want someone that is glued to me and only me.”
A poster divulged, “Judgemental people. I love the drama, but watching from the outside, I will tear someone down with another person just for fun.”
Someone added, “I constantly find myself falling for controlling people. I don’t know if it’s a lack of self-confidence or security that I find in their confidence.”
One person shared, “I’m a nice person or at least consider myself a nice person and tend to fall for other nice people. Most of the time, they become manipulative, and I never see it!”
A top-liked comment said, “I always fall for someone that is argumentative. I’m the type of person to share my opinions when it’s needed or not, and that tends to lead to arguments. I’ve only dated 3 people seriously, but I always get into arguments with them.”
This person stated, “Broken men, usually men on the rebound. I’m naturally drawn to them and seek out men that look sad.”
The Dominant Type
A user mentioned, “I’m an “A-type” personality, so I tend to gravitate towards more “dominant” people. You know the type, the person that holds court with their audience. I think confidence is s***y, but it never works out.”
The Needy Type
This commenter posted, “The needy type, I love being the hero in the situation. I grew up in a household where I had to care for younger siblings and always look for validation.”
Puts Their Needs First
One poster lamented, “My last girlfriend had mental health issues and refused to seek any counseling or help for them. I found out that I would always put her needs above mine no matter what.”
The “Needs Work” Type
Someone shared, “The “fixer-upper” type. I always try to find the good in people, and my last few boyfriends were straight-up losers. Neither had steady jobs and were floating through life without ultimate plans or goals.”
A Beacon For Toxicity
A top-liked comment said, “I don’t think I have a specific type I’m attracted to, but for whatever reason, I tend to attract people with “toxic traits.” It’s like I’m a beacon for toxicity. I’m in therapy because I want to find love, and I’m trying to figure out why I attract these types of girls.”
Finally, someone added, “My dad left me and my mom when I was young. He was in and out of our lives for most of my life, and I know that I have “daddy issues.” I always seem to find men that are narcissists and argumentative.”
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