Dating is hard, especially when you’re looking for a long-term partner that will share in your future. It’s easy to dismiss red flags at first because we may feel that they’re minor warnings, and that person may not actually feel the way you do, but some are just too big to ignore.
A forum user asked the question, “What comment has a woman made to you that made you nope out of there?” and the thread delivered some massive red flags that told the poster of the story to run! Check out the comments some of the users shared!
One Redditor shared, “A friend of mine told me about her friend who would wipe back to front and then initiate s*x with her husband if he did something she didn’t like. My friend laughed, which was when I knew that she was not mentally well. That isn’t normal behavior at all.”
Another Redditor said, “Just met her the day before and was about to set up a date by phone, and she told me, “You’re gonna give me that engineer money, and I’ll buy a nice BMW while you’ll be working to pay for it.”
A second Redditor said, “Your money is my money, and my money is my money…”
This Redditor said, “By the way, I live with 2 of my 3 ex-husbands”.
One user left this comment, “She told me she wanted to go to a comedy show for our second date, but also she was in debt to a local cocaine dealer, so she would have to do a few deals while we were there to pay him back.”
Face To Face
This Redditor said, “A girl I was talking to in college once implied the career path I was studying wasn’t going to be able to provide for her standard of living, as if I was going to change my entire outlook on life to please a girl I’d known for two weeks and hadn’t even met in person yet.”
A user also commented, “A girl I matched with on Tinder told me I had to shave because she wouldn’t kiss a guy with facial hair.”
A user shared, “You need to delete all your female friends from MSN.”
A Redditor had this to say, “One woman I was casually dating said that if she caught me looking at another woman, she would cut off my d*ck. I stopped seeing her right after that.
Another user said, “I want a baby, and I don’t care who with.” I ran far and fast from that one!
This user shared, “I’d rather you hit me than leave.” —I left.”
One Redditor shared, “A girl I was on a first date with and I were having a really great conversation while at a restaurant. When the waitress brought a bottle of water over, this woman started to yell at her because “we were in a private moment”.
Another Redditor shared this, “Brought a woman to my place on a second date. She sees my cat and says: “I hate cats, put that thing out on the sun porch.” I opened the front door and told her to leave.”
Another user said, “I was on a date once, and I was telling this girl how I did photography, and she went, ‘I love photography, taking selfies is my passion, and I aim to be on everyone’s timeline at least three times a day.’ I said an emergency came up and left…”
This Redditor said, “I can’t wait until we get married so I can finally let myself go.” I think some wires were crossed, and she accidentally said what she was thinking.”
Treated Like Gold
A Redditor commented, “She told me she wants a man that treats her like the princess her father did. When I told her that I was not her dad and I didn’t want to be, she threw her drink in my face.”
This user shared, “While on a first date, things were going well, and we were having a nice evening. Then the waiters changed because of their shifts. Our new waiter was a foreigner who was more fluent in English than German. When he said something we didn’t understand, he would then try to say it in German. My date replied, “Speak German with me or go back home to your terrorist families!”. I stood up, paid the bill, gave the waiter a good tip, and apologized for her behavior.”
A Redditor shared this tale, “I was taken home by a very attractive young lady a few years ago. After we did the deed, I said I needed to go because I was working in the morning. She said I could stay if I wanted because her boyfriend was on his way home, and she thought he would like some of what she’d just had.”
A user had this to share, “I had a girl tell me that a man paying is a privilege to look manly.”
Finally, a user commented, “I think it’s okay for women to cheat on men because men usually deserve it.” This is from a girl I was interested in dating. Not after that little gem.”
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