Flirting is fun. It can be an exciting way to show a potential partner that you’re interested in them. But if you’re not knowledgeable about the art of flirting, it can be scary and intimidating, especially when it comes to flirting with men.
A user asked, “How the heck do you flirt with men?” and Redditors shared their best advice, tips, and strategies for flirting with men that can help you feel more confident and increase your chances of success.
One Redditor said, “Stop being subtle. Be direct.”
A second Redditor added, “We do not get when you are subtle. BE DIRECT!”
A Redditor added, “Be honest and direct unless you wanna see another “This girl was flirting with me, and I had no idea” post on Reddit in about 10 years.”
Straight To The Point
This user added, “Maybe even blunt. “I find you attractive. Talk to me, and let’s get to know each other.”
Don’t Waste Time
A user offered this advice, “Yeah, I’m like kind of a shy person, but I’ve never had issues initiating a move with a guy I’m into. Literally, I hate wasting my time and waiting around, so if I’m into a guy, I just casually ask to hang out or strike up a conversation with them. I’ve literally never had a negative reaction from a guy when I’ve done it.”
Ask For A Date
This user offered, “Hey, I like your <hair/shirt/whatever/insert here>! Let’s go get some coffee just the two of us” is a surefire way!”
Don’t Drop Hints
A Redditor also shared, “You have to be direct with men – my husband does not pick up on subtle hints….most men don’t. You have to tell them very clearly.”
Make The First Move
One user said, “Guys WILL NOT make the first move, especially after the friend zone. Ask him out; the ball is in your court.”
Issue A Challenge
A user said, “Challenge them to a game of rock paper scissors. Say the loser has to ask the winner on a date.”
This Redditor said, “Be super obvious about it.”
Another Redditor said, “You asking me how my weekend was every Monday is not obvious enough for me.”
A popular comment that was shared was, “Just start to talk about anything. We often like to talk to women.”
Another one was, “We enjoy listening to women talk and will try to keep a conversation going if we are interested too. “
A Redditor added, “Enthusiasm. Not fake or manufactured. Interest. Excitement.”
Drop The Sarcasm
One Redditor said, “We live in a pretty sarcastic and non-committal era. People would rather be distracted than interact. If you have a particular guy you’re interested in, find out what he’s into and figure out what’s interesting about it.”
Another user said, “A guy asked me if he could pet my dog 6 months ago. I replied with, “do you wanna go make out in a snow bank?” We are now engaged.”
One Redditor said, Say, “Hey, how bout some tacos.”
A second Redditor replied, “Bring me some homemade food and then mention cooking or getting food with me.”
Finally, a Redditor said, “Be as direct as possible. No hints, no games, no double entendres. We’re dense. We’re over the whole “hard to get” bs. If you like us, TELL US as plainly as possible.”
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