Determining your attraction to another person can be an immediate feeling or something that pops up one day. That said, there are several indicators that can help you realize if you’re attracted to someone or not. Physical attraction is normally the first sign. If you find that person to be good-looking, whether it be their eyes, facial structure, hair, or body type that you’re attracted to, then you have your answer. However, there can also be a strong emotional and psychological aspect that draws your attention. The physical attraction could be smoke and mirrors. You may not be physically attracted to someone, but once they speak, that could grab your attention. After that, you may find yourself constantly thinking about them or feeling a sense of excitement and anticipation when interacting with them.
One user said, “For me, that’s easy. It’s based on if I want to have s****x with them or not. Let’s be honest here physical attraction is usually the first way to know if you’re attracted to someone.”
If Ya Gotta Ask Yourself
A second user commented, “If you’re asking yourself this question, then the answer is probably no, you don’t find them attractive.”
A third user shared, “In the first 5 seconds, you should know if there is attractiveness. It’s pretty easy to tell especially if they possess all the physical traits you’re attracted to.”
Hear Them Speak
This commenter posted, “In my opinion, it’s hard to be super attracted to someone before they open their mouths…They can be the most physically attractive person in the world to me, but if they start explaining why the earth is flat, I’m out immediately.”
A top-liked comment said, “Check for that strange, tingly feeling in your tummy. If that’s happening, you’re getting sucked in, and more than likely you’re attracted to them.”
This person stated, “A big sign aside from physical attraction is if I’m willing to stop at nothing to see them, even if it’s for a brief moment and I’m going out of my way just to catch them for a moment.”
Dressing For Them
Someone shared, “I get dressed up or dress better than my normal-looking self. If I know someone I have a crush on will be at a party or social gathering, my hair will be done, make-up on, and dressed for them!”
One poster recalled, “I recently found out I’m more engaged with someone I’m attracted to with body language. I also found this out the hard way. Totally got caught by a girl I was seeing/on a date with when I saw a co-worker out one night. Needless to say, the girl I was there with and I will not be going out again.”
Like No One Else Is Around
This user mentioned, “I guess you could say I’m a bit of a d****ck to almost everyone. However, if I’m playing nice and engaging you in conversation like no one else is around, I’m attracted to you.”
A top-liked comment said, “OMG, I’m such a flirt, and it’s super hard not to act that way when I’m attracted to someone! Like a big-time flirt too! If I’m touching you in any way, shape, or form or obnoxiously laughing at your jokes, you’re attractive to me.”
A user commented, “I am hugely attracted to eyes. They’re the first thing I notice about the opposite gender, give me big blue or brown eyes, and I’ll get lost in them for days! If I’m making strong eye contact with someone, you can bet your a**** I’m attracted to you and those peepers!”
This person shared, “Mine might be considered a red flag or, at minimum, a turn-off. I’m an over-sharer! I will tell you about when I was 8 and got bubble gum stuck in my hair because I blew too big of a bubble! If I’m attracted to you, I will just babble my head off.”
Someone shared, “I’ll say extreme nervousness. When my current boyfriend first started to get to know me, he was so nervous talking to me, it was the cutest thing, but I could tell how nervous he was lol”
Immediate Mood Booster
This user said, “One thing I know for sure is that when someone likes you or finds you attractive, their mood will immediately improve upon seeing you! Thanks, random relationship psychology class I took as an elective in college!”
Finally, a user commented, “If I find someone attractive, I will talk to everyone and anyone about them. I will share all the details I learned about them and stalk their social media to find out any blanks I need to fill in.”
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