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18 Qualities That Instantly Captivate Men’s Attention in Women

Some things can instantly attract you to a person. It may be a personality trait, a physical trait, or even a mixture of both. Each person is different, and we often call these types of attractions “types. But what “types” do men find most attractive? Someone asked the question, “Boys be brutally honest. What makes a girl attractive instantly?”


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One Redditor wrote, “Kindness. Hands down. You can be pretty or not. But the moment I discover that you are thoughtful and kind? BOOM… you’re a knockout! Married my knockout too.”

A second Redditor added, “Having a good heart. Building people up rather than tearing them down.”

Naturally Funny

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A user commented, “Being naturally funny to the point we can just riff and both be cracking up. Met one girl in my life that would have me constantly dying, so I invited her out to the bar since all our mutual friends were going out. We spent all night just cracking jokes and trolling men who would approach her.”

Another user said, “Humor. If a girl has a good sense of humor and can make you laugh and also can take a joke, it makes her more approachable and attractive!”

Having Passion

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A popular comment was, “Being passionate about something. I love when a girl starts pouring out her thoughts on a favorite topic. Seeing the excitement behind her eyes and increase in animation is super cool!”


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A person responded, ”Vulnerability. People are so guarded and closed off being able to have an open, genuine interaction with someone willing to share who they truly are is wildly attractive. That’s what made me fall for my wife so quickly. She was so vulnerable and authentic from the start I couldn’t help but fall in love with her.”

Good Listener

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A Redditor replied, “Whenever they listen to the conversation and contribute. There’s a thing of waiting for your turn to talk, and then there’s actually listening adding to the conversation. You should never just be waiting to talk. Listening and understanding another person’s point is important to me.”


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One person commented, “Confidence trumps all of it for me. Some women just have a presence when they enter a room that demands attention, and it’s so attractive. You pick up on it even before you really get a good look at them.”

Another person replied, “Confidence is very attractive. Overconfidence is extremely ugly. There’s a difference between knowing you’re attractive. And thinking you’re the most attractive person in the room.”


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One Redditor wrote, “Enthusiasm, like please tell me excitedly about how color theory is the reason behind marketing success. I’ll be drooling in a second.”

A second Redditor commented, “Enthusiasm for sports, their job, a hobby, etc.”

Down To Earth

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One user replied, “When she’s down to earth and not mean for no reason, lol.”

Another user felt the same and said, “This is what bothers me about so many strong women in today’s movies and TV. It’s OK if a woman is mean with good reason, but they are just snarky and sassy for no good reason.”


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An honest person added, “If she is attracted to me.”

A lot of people agreed, and one said, “It’s your attachment style, upbringing. Therapy can help you be more engaged in healthier relationships.”


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One most liked comment was, “I am such a sucker for smiley eyes. Every one of my GFs has had smiley eyes, and I just realized this like a year ago.”


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A person commented, “Great posture. Great posture can make up for a lot of other physical shortcomings.”

Another person replied, “I stayed after a swing dance class when the Tango artists arrived. One young woman was rather average, but when she struck her first pose, every single male eye in the room was riveted to her.”


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A couple of users wrote, “Freckled face.”

A user added, “Oh, I freakin’ LOVE freckles! They’re cute!”


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One Redditor responded, “I scrolled through this whole thing at almost 300 comments, and no one said hair? Nicely styled hair of any variety immediately attracts me to anyone, regardless of gender. It shows me that you take your appearance seriously and have a sense of personal style.”


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A simple answer was, “A smile.”

Another added. “Yep, a genuine smile does it for me. However, the face can’t be a disaster.”

Physical Health

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One popular answer was “Overall physical health.”

Another comment was, “Yes – I was going to say “if they look healthy.”


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One funny comment was, “The answer is boobs.” -Michael Scott.”

Another person replied, “How did nobody answer “big B33bs”?”


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A user commented, “When a girl walks up with an itty bitty waist and a round thing in your face, I get sprung.”

Thick Thighs

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A person replied. “Thick thighs are so hot.”

Another person added, “For me, at least, both. Chubby thighs are good, and muscular thighs are good. I just like a curvy, feminine shape. Can’t explain why. Nothing wrong with skinny women, plenty of people love that too, but it’s not for me.”

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