No Following: This is what His Boyfriend Wants

Is it wrong to ask your partner to unfollow you on social media? Does it automatically mean you’re doing something wrong? Or does it stand that if you are on social media, anyone can follow you, and you don’t really have the right to ask someone to unfollow you?

A Reddit user (M32) is fed up with how his girlfriend (33F) constantly causes arguments with him over his social media activity. He doesn’t believe he’s doing anything wrong online, and it’s at the point now where he doesn’t want her to follow him on any form of social media.

White Line
White Line

If you have ever experienced relationship issues relating to social media, then this story may well be of interest to you.

Block Her Online or From his Life Altogether?

The original poster (OP) explains that the behavior of his girlfriend is far from normal. This isn’t a story about a guy who is flirting with other girls online, and his girlfriend is uneasy about it, but rather one about a guy whose girlfriend is stalking his female friends for no reason whatsoever.

OP says that his girlfriend accuses him of having an unacceptable interest in every single one of his female friends. Despite constant reassurance from OP, his girlfriend doesn’t believe him and spends her days constantly analyzing girls that follow him on Instagram.

OP insists that he has done nothing to cause these feelings and just wants to be able to relax while online. Due to the constant barrage of accusations, OP has taken the decision to deactivate his Instagram and delete his old Reddit account.

Reddittors get straight to the point.

The Reddit community wasn’t in the mood to beat around the bush and, on the whole, avoided OP’s main question altogether. Instead, many people seemed concerned for his well-being and urged him to end the relationship.

One user seemed to sum up the thoughts of the community quite eloquently. They said: “It sounds like social media is the least of your concerns. She sounds possessive to a deranged extent. You should exit the relationship.”

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