Alarming Yet Intriguing: The Top 20 Things Women Find Fascinating About Men
From unique personality traits to hidden talents, women are drawn to the enigmatic qualities that make men truly captivating. Join us as we explore the intricacies of what captivates women, shedding light on the diverse facets that make men irresistibly intriguing.
They Like Cuddling
One user said, “Cuddles. They can be really serious, but when they are alone with you, they can be cuddly bears who love to be the little spoon.”
Belly Button Lint
One shared, “That belly button lint is a thing. I don’t have any, but he always does. No matter the season, there’s a tiny poof of lint in his belly button at the end of the day. Makes me giggle.”
Over-Analytical
A user mentioned, “They agonize over what to text girls/women as much as women do. I can’t even count the number of times a guy friend has sent me an iPhone screenshot with “What should I reply back???”
They Don’t Mind That We’re Not Perfect
A top-liked comment said, “They don’t care that women aren’t perfect. For real-life companionship, men really don’t care about your extra ten pounds, stretch marks, or asymmetrical eyebrows/boobs/whatever. Most men are happy to have someone soft and warm, smart and funny, interesting and understanding to share their lives with.”
They’re Very Literal
This user shared, “When you ask what he is thinking, and he says, ‘nothing,’ he really means it.”
Body Positive
“How comfortable they are with their bodies. I was pretty fascinated the first time I had relations with a guy, and afterward, he got up and walked around naked, bent down in weird positions, and just acted in a way that I would never be comfortable with someone I hardly knew. All guys I’ve been with are so chill with their bodies, which forces me to be chill with my body too. It’s great.”
Insecure
“With me, it was the opposite: how insecure some of them are about their bodies! I had no idea men had body issues as women do. Been with a couple of guys who refused to remove their shirts around anyone but me, and they were perfectly healthy looking.”
Emotionally Supportive
“Like many girls, a lot of the advice I received about guys growing up was along the lines of ‘don’t try too hard; he’ll lose interest.’ Or, ‘Don’t let guys see you cry/ get angry/ fart/ worry.’ While that may have been good advice for boys, it doesn’t hold true for men. I was absolutely humiliated to cry in front of my boyfriend the first time, but he stopped me from running off to hide alone and made it very clear that he took taking care of me when I was upset very seriously.”
They Have Feelings
This user said, “It seems to absolutely blow some women away to learn that men actually have…feelings and emotions. They’re not these stoic creatures who can’t be bothered to deal with your problems and would rather you hide in a room until you have sorted yourselves out.”
Sensitive
A user commented, “Just how sensitive and closed up they are. On the surface, they seem so confident and in control, but once you get to know them … not that it’s bad but they really open up.”
Confident
One stated, “Confidence is a facade man presents to the outside to protect himself from an unsympathetic world.”
Muscles
Another mentioned, “They don’t understand how incredibly hot their forearms are.”
Keeping It Simple
“That, compared to women, they’re just generally more simple. Not stupid – simple. They say what they mean. If they say an outfit looks nice on you, it means the outfit looks nice on you.”
Powerless
“Might be a college thing, but the importance they place on girls and this idea of us apparently wielding quite a bit of power over them, that I still can’t really wrap my head around.”
Non-Judgemental
A user shared this opinion, “How nonjudgmental they are. My guy never hardly talks negatively about people. When he does, he talks about it for a minute, and then he’s over it.”
Fulfillment
This user commented, “I am constantly amazed that when a man is in love with a woman, his woman’s happiness is the only thing that matters to him. It doesn’t seem to matter what else is happening in my boyfriend’s life. As long as I’m happy, he’s happy. I just don’t understand this concept.”
Emotionally Competent
This user stated, “One insight: a single man lacks affection in his life. His friends tend not to express it that often, and society discourages showing it back. So when a woman comes into his life, she becomes a source of emotional fulfillment he’s been craving for months, if not years.”
Protector
A top-liked comment said, “Many men are protective of all women, regardless of any level of attachment. It comes off as sexist from some men, but as long as they let me do my job, I think it’s sweet.”
Shutting It Down
“I love how guys can shut off all thinking when they’re about to get lucky. It’s like there’s no single thought left in their head besides the thought of seeing you naked and touching you and getting it in. I find it both hilarious and really adorable.”
Cluttered Organization
Finally, “How simultaneously cluttered and organized men can be. Stacks of clutter everywhere, the bathroom dirty, and clothes on the floor with no ability, besides olfactory inspection, to determine their level of cleanliness. Then you open a drawer, and everything is perfectly organized. Wires are neatly tied together, electronic accessories are organized by frequency of use and application, and books are often arranged alphabetically and, barring that, at least grouped into categories.”
Source: Reddit
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