In matters of attraction, physical appearance tends to be the initial focal point for many individuals. Nevertheless, it is crucial to acknowledge that a girl’s appeal or impressiveness extends far beyond her looks. Additional qualities such as intelligence, confidence, a sense of humor, kindness, empathy, and ambition hold significant importance when considering a potential partner. In fact, numerous individuals discover that these non-physical attributes surpass physical appearance in establishing a profound and meaningful connection with someone.
One Redditor said, “My wife’s laughs are literally everything. Sometimes she watches a show on her laptop in our room and I hear her cracking up from down the hall. Absolutely love it.”
A Redditor shared, “Accountability. If she can openly admit when she’s wrong or that she messed up, that’s attractive as it shows maturity and ability to judge yourself impartially, and it means you are less likely to repeat the mistake. This also means what you feel for her is not only love, it’s respect, which is just as important.”
This user had this to say, “For me, the sexiest thing a woman can do is be calm – not calm as in quiet, as in calm when things go sideways, or something unexpected happens. Having someone who is reliable and stable as a partner is so crucial in life.”
A top-liked comment said, “Having a hobby/interest that they are very knowledgeable/passionate about. Even if it’s something super benign like painting nails or baseball, I just love people who can ramble on about their interest- especially if I’m not into it; it’s like peaking into another world.”
“Critical thinking skills are hot!”
A second added, “Problem-solving skills are pretty damn important.”
One added, “I find a woman’s voice to be one of the best factors in determining if I’m attracted to a woman.”
A user said, “Intelligence. Good looks only go so far when you realize she doesn’t even know basic life skills.”
“Went on a date last week and the woman never took her phone out of her purse. Super hot!”
This top liked comment said, “How they treat themselves (self care), how they treat others (friendships), how they work with others (collaboration), what they enjoy learning (curiosity), and what they enjoy doing (creativity)”
“The ability to listen. To REALLY listen.”
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A user had this to say, “Being pet-friendly is a big plus.”
Another user added, “I have a dog and a fish. Must be willing to at least pet one. Preferably the dog.”
Someone had this to say, “I love that my wife enjoys hiking, it gets me out of the house. I love that we have similar interests.”
A top liked comment mentioned, “Being self-sufficient. I don’t want to date a dependent.”
One funny comment was, “Must be able to cook an egg, spaghetti, and at least one side alone.”
A user commented, “A bit of a simple one here, but I love when a girl can sing. My wife claims she can’t can’t carry a tune in a bucket, but when she sings it’s beautiful to my ears. When we have a couple drinks I’ll get my guitar out and can occasionally convince her to sing a few songs with me. It’s one of my favorite things we do.”
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“The same traits I look for in a best friend. General vibe needs to be on point. Thoughtful, kind, sassy. I’m perfectly happy being single, so my partner needs to add to my life and make our time together more valuable than my time alone.”
“If she’s got a dark sense of humor.”
A second added, “She’s got to match my humor, or at least like joke.”
A popular comment that was shared was, “Someone with equivalent levels of apathy and laziness, but about areas of life that compliment my own apathy and laziness.”
“Optimism I’m a bit of a pessimist at times. I fall into nihilistic thinking a lot. Good to have someone who can look at our future, with a positive light.”
This user said, “Adventurous – Being willing to put yourself at risk of humiliation, danger, or failure when encountering new activities is attractive.”
Finally, “When I dated my ex, the one thing that constantly made me fall in love with her was just her ability to just get excited to talk about anything. I loved seeing her just get excited about either the littlest things or whatever was on her mind and just talk away.”
See, there is more to being attractive than just your appearance. Redditors agree the traits above count a little extra.
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