People Share 20 Reasons Their Relationship Ended Before They Got Hitched!

Ending a relationship with someone you believed would become your life partner is a very tough and emotionally demanding thing to go through. Letting go of shared future dreams can be a painful journey, especially when you discover hidden secrets that the other person has kept from you.

A Knock On The Door

One user shared, “It was the F.B.I. knocking at my door to arrest him for being a pedophile and a kiddy porn salesman. No joke.”

Finances

A second user said, “I needed to sort my mental health and finances out. I dated the most incredible man for 4 years, but I saw how my depression and lack of financial control affected us.”

A Realized Fear

A third user added, “She wanted to go to Florida for the Disney college program. She was too scared she would lose me. I convinced her to do it because if she didn’t, she would regret it forever and that no matter what happened, I would still be here for her. 6 months and an engagement ring later, she told me that while in Florida, she realized she didn’t love me like she thought she had.”

Cheating

This user recalled, “I was engaged to a guy I dated for 3 years. We planned a destination wedding. He cheated on me with a mutual friend one night. His mom (who he lived with while we were apartment hunting) accidentally walked in on them. He didn’t know his mom had seen him, but she called and told me what happened. He denied it when I confronted him, which made it worse. Called off the wedding and broke up.”

Being In Denial

A Redditor mentioned, “She was in love with my best friend. And they were both in denial about it. They were engaged a month after we broke up.”

Now It’s Your Debt

A poster said, “Her mom had been paying her credit card for years and basically told me that her daughter was $150,000+ in debt to her and that that would be our debt soon. She never told me about it.”

Better With Kids

This Redditor shared, “He cheated and got another woman pregnant. Then called me a few weeks later, asking me to be the child’s godmother because he “knows I’m really good with kids.”

Wasn’t Paying The Bills

A user commented, “He was completely unable to manage money. Spent every dollar he came across on gaming & weed and constantly put off paying important bills. Would’ve dragged us both into bankruptcy if I stayed with him.”

Just Gave Up

One poster shared, “I moved across the world for him. He kept telling me, “One day, I want to propose.” Or “I can’t wait for you to be my wife.” That proposal never came, and I was having visa issues. After a few years, I gave up and moved back.”

Non-Commital

This user recalled, “We had been dating for three years and constantly talked about getting married and what our life will be like. He returned to the military and wouldn’t commit to having a long-distance relationship with me because it would be “way too distracting when he’s in the field and I pop up on his mind.” He didn’t want to commit to a relationship while in the army. So we broke it off.”

Not There When Needed

This Redditor added,  “Even after 2 years of constantly forgiving him for cheating on me, it wasn’t until I needed to be hospitalized that I realized he didn’t love me. When I needed him the most, he told me, “I’m sorry, I can’t take you being in there. It makes me too sad.” “Call me when you get out.” So when I did, I told him I just wanted to be friends, but I had nothing against him. Literally, a day after I called him and told him that, he changed his status to “in a relationship” and began dating a new girl.”

Ultimatum Fulfilled

A top-liked comment said, “The relationship died. We had very different ideas of what life should be like. For example, he had said he’d break up with me if I didn’t get a college education. He also gave me ultimatums (twice) about moving with him to a small town- both times. The second time, I let him carry out the ultimatum.”

Lack Of Honesty

A poster shared, “Found a credit card statement on the floor once, just before a family holiday. Thousands in debt that he’d never told me about. I’d been paying the rent entirely by myself in a job I hated, and I was too young and naïve to realize he wasn’t an honest man. That was it for me.”

Meant Nothing

A commenter added, “The reality is that our relationship was over well before we officially broke up, but one day I asked him what I meant to him, and he answered, “Nothing.”

Can’t Take Responsibility

One user recalled, “She was quite a rude person. She believed anyone who told her that acting this way was unacceptable was someone trying to control her. She would always deflect and couldn’t just accept that people don’t like blunt and rude ass people in general.”

Hid It Well

This Redditor stated, “We were together for 9 months. I found out I was the other guy when I proposed to her. We worked together at a job where you couldn’t wear rings. She hid it very well, clearly.”

A Sacraficed Relationship

A poster shared, “After 4 years of being in a relationship, her parents still couldn’t come to terms with my religion and caste. They completely opposed our marriage, the girl couldn’t sacrifice her parents’ relationship, so she sacrificed me for them.”

Thankfully Caught

This user commented, “She cheated on me, multiple times, on her trip to Europe. I saw the Facebook messages on the computer where she was still logged in. Then she lied when I called her on it… I was planning our engagement. I’m glad it happened before I proposed, I guess.”

Time To Move On

One Redditor said, “It got to a point where he wasn’t working or going to school and just lacked ambition. After all the support and trying to push him to do more, I was done.”

I Grew Up

Finally, a Redditor shared, “As we grew, his charm dissipated. When I was 19, he didn’t have a job, so we could always be together. He was messy, but so was I. He played video games all day, but life was easy and fun! At 27, I was working full-time and getting my BA. He was still jobless, a slob, and still played video games all day. I worked my ass off. I grew up. He didn’t.”

Source: Reddit

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