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People Share 15 Things That Make Older Men More Attractive?

Several factors contribute to the perceived attractiveness of older men to women. Firstly, maturity and life experience often lend older men a sense of confidence and self-assuredness. This confidence translates into better communication skills, emotional stability, and a deeper understanding of relationships. Additionally, older men have established careers and financial stability, which can provide a sense of security and potential for a comfortable future. Finally, the natural aging process can bring about a distinguished and sophisticated appearance, which some women find alluring. 

More Self-Assured

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To start, a user shared, “They just seem to carry themselves in a more self-assured and confident way. It’s really attractive. Men my age (early 20s) haven’t got to that stage yet on the whole.”


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A second user added, “Older men are more likely to be responsible, they’re less annoying, and a bit more ~experienced. And there’s something so attractive about a “weathered-looking” man.”

Distinguished Vibes

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This user commented, “For me, it’s because they generally aren’t nearly as immature as my peer group, and they have a very distinguished vibe about them. From a personal standpoint, I also tend to have more in common with them.”

More Accepting

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A highly-liked comment was, “Older men are way more accepting, open, and loving. There’s very little game-playing in terms of trying to find a relationship. They know what they want to do with the rest of their lives, and that’s comforting compared to the life of your average “20-something bro.”

Their Wit

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One person wrote, “I find some older men attractive. Essentially those men are witty, progressive, and liberal. I have mini celebrity crushes on Keith Olbermann, Jon Stewart, and Bill Maher.”

Spark For Life

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A top-liked comment said, “I am 34, and my husband is 53. For me, it was his spark and his laughter. I knew he was older than me when we first started spending time together – but I didn’t care. He made me feel and still makes me feel like the most important person in the world.”

Has His Life Together

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One user commented, “ I prefer men 5-10 years older than me. They’re more likely to have their life together than guys my age but aren’t so much older that we can’t relate to each other.”

Engaging Personality

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A person commented, “An engaging personality. An interest in many different things and good looks! I have always been attracted to older men because of their looks. Finally, stability- at 44, my husband is sure of himself and what he likes and dislikes. He’s set in his ways, and this constancy is something of a comfort.”


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A popular comment was, “My boyfriend is in his mid-40s, and I dig it. He is very comfortable and confident in his own skin and has a lot of life experiences which is something I also find very attractive. Older men, generally, have their stuff together and know what they want in relationships and in life, so for me, that is definitely part of the appeal.”

Can Care For Himself

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One poster said, “I’m in my mid-twenties. Men in their 30s and 40s who care for themselves tend to be very attractive to me.”

Undeniable Chemistry

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This user replied, “I am in a relationship with someone 28 years my senior. Never meant to, but it just sorta happened. Met him through a hobby and just had a chemistry that I can’t explain. Chatting with him was like chatting to someone I’d known for a long time. We’re best friends, and I love him very much. The honeymoon phase hasn’t ended yet, not after 4 years anyway.”

Maturity Level

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A person suggested, “My husband is 17 years older than me. It’s not so much the age. It’s more the maturity level. I wasn’t necessarily looking for an older partner. The man I fell in love with just happened to be quite a bit older than me.”

They’ll Worship You

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This user added, “Older men often worship the ground a younger woman walks on, which can feel good.”

They Know Themselves

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An insightful comment was, “I’m in my mid-twenties, and I am not looking for a fling. God knows I can find plenty. I’m looking for someone who I can slowly build our future with. Someone who will be putting in just as much work as I do, someone who will understand me. How can I expect someone who is still finding oneself to build for the future when they aren’t yet sure what type of future they want?”

Attracted To Maturity

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This poster recalled, “My husband is 20 yrs older, and I was always attracted to older men. Not like ancient, but at least 10 years older than I was. No idea why. I didn’t look for them specifically. It was just that every man I found attractive happened to be older.”

Seeks Stable Partnerships

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Finally, a commenter said, “When I was in my early 30s, I started dating my now husband, who was 50 at the time. I was physically attracted to him, but I was also attracted to the fact that he was seeking a stable partnership. He was sure of what he wanted in life. I was too. It worked!”

Source: Reddit

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