When it comes to dating and relationships, there are specific things men think will impress a woman, but it is crucial to realize women’s wants and desires vary. That being said, men like to brag about financial status, se****ual prowess, and materialistic things they possess. While some women may feel these things are impressive, many don’t and find it to be a huge turn-off.
One Redditor shared, “Constant se****l talk. I’m quite open to flirting and se****y talk sometimes, but it doesn’t have to be a part of every single conversation.”
A second Redditor said, “One time, a guy showed me some pictures he took on his phone. As he’s scrolling, tons of nudes from other girls pop up in his camera roll. Like WHAT. THE. F****K. Dude, this is our first date. I don’t want to see sketchy pictures like that. At least save them to another album. There was no second date.”
A third Redditor commented, “When they try to impress me with their knowledge without taking my own into consideration. For example, this guy recently tried hitting on me in a parking lot. He then started giving me bad car advice, and it was obvious I knew more than him in mechanics.”
This user stated, “Immediately bragging or showing off within 5 minutes of conversation. That includes how much you make, your job, etc. One guy at a bar last week grabbed my arm to shout in my ear, “I HAD CANCER WHEN I WAS A KID.” Yeah, don’t do that…”
One user shared, “Tell me how many girls they have slept with. Most of the time, they are lying, and if they aren’t, then eww…”
A top-liked comment said, “D*ck pics – I’m 37, on OkCupid, and two days ago, a dude tried to send me one a day after we’d exchanged phone numbers to arrange a date. He is in his late-30s/early 40s. Seriously dude? We haven’t even MET!”
One Redditor said, “Bash on women. It literally makes no sense, but it’s so common. Like it’s 2023, have you paid zero attention to anything?”
This poster commented, “Men who discuss their muscles, se****l prowess, how much they can drink before puking, how much they drank last night before they puked….”
A commenter shared, “Sh***t-talk my ex as if that will make me change my mind and hop on you instead.”
Choice Of Clothing
This user added, “Went on a first date with a guy who wore a shirt with two arrows pointing to his biceps that said, “Welcome to the gun show”… cringe and laugh….”
A top-liked comment said, “Flaunting their wealth. I’m sure that is a turn-on for some girls, but for myself and most people I know, it just screams “d-bag.”
A Redditor commented, “Crazy driving. Maybe once I’ve known you for a while and understand that you have total control of your car, I’ll be more comfortable with you driving fast and recklessly; but until then, showing me how you can drift around a corner just makes me think you’re being reckless with my life. Please stop.”
A user shared, “The biggest one for me is lying about the things he’s into just because I said I said I was into those things. If you’ve never seen Blade Runner, for example, don’t say you have just because it’s my favorite film. I can always tell when they’re lying about this, and I don’t think it’s sweet.”
A poster said, “When he demands to pay for everything, I appreciate it when guys pay, but I like to pay occasionally too. This isn’t the 1950s, and I have a job, so let me treat sometimes.”
One Redditor added, “I once went on a second date with a guy who came to pick me up. I live in apartments and try to be super considerate of my neighbors all the time. When I got in his car, he started revving his engine super loud. A.) I’m not impressed by that whatsoever, and B.) I’m sure none of my neighbors appreciated the noise. That was our last date.”
A top-liked comment mentioned, “When guys say, “I could be with any girl right now, but I chose you.” GOD BLESS YOU. OMG, SO BLESSED.”
This Redditor commented, “When guys give me a “resume” or tell me why I should date them. “I’m real buff. I’ll treat you real nice. I make lots of money. I’ll buy you gifts…” Like I’m some sort of a shallow brainless twit that is looking to hire a boyfriend.”
This user said, “I don’t like loud, obnoxious guys. Sure, if were at a bar and you’re drunk and yelling, that’s one thing, but to just be loud and obnoxious all the time embarrasses me. If we’re getting coffee, the people at the other end of the patio shouldn’t know what we’re talking about.”
A user added, “The whole “I’m a nice guy” act. If you really were a nice guy, you wouldn’t have to tell me that.”
Finally, a Redditor shared, “Constantly call me s****y, beautiful, etc., when they’ve just met me. Example: “Hey, what’s up? I think you’re se****y as hell. We should hang out.” It makes me feel like a piece of meat and makes them look shallow.”
Through many of the comments female Redditors shared, it seems that material possessions, boastful displays of wealth, and hyperfocus on physical attributes, more often than not, failed to impress women. When searching for potential partners, women tend to look for deep connections and men who are genuine in their pursuits as well.
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